Not out of courage.
But because I had no other choice.
Penthouse. Excellent career. Luxury restaurant.
And yet: Empty. Dead. On autopilot.
I was a functioning man – but no longer a living person.
Men don’t break down. They continue to function quietly.
We swallow the anger. The fear. The emptiness.
We lead teams but can’t even lead ourselves.
We sleep with partners we haven’t spoken to honestly for years.
We talk about OKRs – but avoid any conversation about our inner lives.
That’s exactly why I wrote a book.
Not about “emotional intelligence” as a skill.
But about what you need to be yourself again.
The new emotional intelligence for men is not a tool.
It is a revolution.
She tells you:
- Your relationship problems are no coincidence – they reflect your inner ambiguity.
- Your anger is not a weakness – but an unlived feeling that wants to be seen.
- Your career is meaningless – if you lose yourself in it.
90 seconds.
That’s how long it takes you to hold a feeling before you shoot it out destructively.
90 damn seconds.
Between power and abuse.
Between connection and violation.
Between maturity and regression.
Do you really want to lead? Then stop hiding.
Start leading yourself.
With clarity. With depth. With radical honesty.
“The new emotional intelligence for men”
From July 14.
Only for men who want to stop just functioning.
Podcast about it – more raw than any keynote. More honest than your last glance in the mirror.
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