As long as you are not sexually free, you are controllable.
Not just by your partner. But also by your boss, your employer, by anyone who pushes into your unconscious shadows.
I know the game.
I was the best people pleaser in Germany for years – loved by my teams, celebrated as a “great boss”.
But the truth is? I was weak. I avoided conflicts. I sought compromises where clear boundaries would have been necessary. I sold harmony because I didn’t have the courage to face my own shadows and hellhounds.
The hard truth:
– Those who avoid short-term pain pay the price in the long term.
– Those who are not free are manipulated.
– If you don’t live in presence, you give away all your power.
Freedom starts when you have the courage to go into those spaces that scare you the most.
When you dare to look when you’re no longer moderating away.
When you have the balls in your pants to tell your boss:
“Trust me. I deliver on time, quality and budget – no matter where I am. And if that’s not enough for you, we’re not a good fit.”
Being free means being uncontrollable.
And that’s exactly what makes you the man they call when others are in prison – because everyone knows you’ll get them out.
The new masculinity starts NOW.
No more avoidance. No more pleasing. No more wasting away.
Become free. Become present. Become the man who is needed.
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