Introduction and personal background
I would like to share my story with you. Perhaps you will recognize yourself in some parts. My path was anything but straightforward. From management consultant to managing director to headhunter – this path was characterized by major turning points and deep insights.
From collapse to transformation
In my twenties, I pursued a stellar career in management consulting. At the age of 29, I was a member of the management board of a renowned company. But behind the shiny facade lay a bitter truth. My body was sending me clear signals, which I ignored for a long time until I had a breakdown – burnout. I had to pull the emergency brake and end my career abruptly.
My next attempt to be successful as a managing director failed again at the same hurdle. The realization hit me hard: an external career without internal development is not sustainable.
The path to a new way of life
After a few failures, I decided to go into headhunting. This decision was not easy, because the image I had of headhunters was anything but positive. But necessity is the mother of invention, and so I developed my own method of headhunting, which made me successful and enabled me to find my true calling.
The importance of self-determination and the inside-outside game
A self-determined life is the key to satisfaction. It means making decisions that are not motivated by external expectations but by inner convictions. The inside-outside principle plays a central role here. Problems on the outside are often just reflections of our inner world. If we process and understand this inner world, we can also better master external challenges.
Practical tips for overcoming internal and external challenges
Self-reflection: regularly take time to listen to yourself. Ask yourself what really moves you and where your true needs lie.
Set priorities: Be clear about what is important to you and put this at the forefront of your decisions.
Courage to change: Big changes start with a small decision. Dare to take the first step, even if the path is uncertain.
Learn to say no: Don’t take on the expectations of others. Your path is unique and it’s okay to say no when something doesn’t suit you.
Motivation and encouragement for the reader
Each of us has the opportunity to lead a self-determined life. It requires courage, determination and the willingness to question yourself honestly. My journey shows that you too can master your inner and outer challenges. Take the first step and realize that a fulfilling, self-determined life is within everyone’s reach. In future posts, I will dive deeper into these topics and share more valuable insights with you.
Conclusion: Your path to self-determination – a journey of inner and outer realization
My journey, characterized by professional success and personal low blows, brings a central insight to the fore: a fulfilled and self-determined life requires both inner and outer change.
External success is only sustainable if it is supported by inner balance and contentment. External challenges are often easier to overcome if you have understood and dealt with your inner conflicts and needs. This insight may sound simple, but putting it into practice requires a constant and courageous process of reflection.
The journey to self-determination is long and often challenging, but it is worth it. Each of us has the opportunity to walk this path and find our inner strength. It takes courage, determination and a willingness to continually reflect on yourself.
My experience shows that even apparent setbacks are valuable lessons. They force us to pause and re-evaluate what really matters. From burnout to reorientation in headhunting and beyond – every step was part of my journey to self-determination.
In future posts, I will dive deeper into specific topics to offer you valuable insights and practical tips. These will help you to successfully shape your own journey of self-determination and professional and personal growth.
Every path is unique and your potential is limitless. Take the first step, use the power of self-reflection and inner clarity to steer your outer life in a fulfilling and self-determined direction. Your journey can begin today – and it’s a journey that will be rewarding in every way.