Not career. Not six-pack. Not status.

Not career. Not six-pack. Not status.

Your sexuality is what really transforms you. What really transforms you is your access to yourself. To your inner flame. To real, deep connection. To real closeness – not the 3-minute pressure release at midnight after the talk show. I’m talking about the...
No desire for sex = no connection to you

No desire for sex = no connection to you

Sexuality is not a lifestyle.It is your energy center.Your inner flame.Your primal power. If you suppress it – through duty, conformity, distraction -then you lose the very thing that makes you strong as a man:Presence. Focus. Clarity. Drive. The new masculinity...
Who do you call when you’re in prison?

Who do you call when you’re in prison?

And: Are YOU this man? Imagine waking up in a maximum security prison somewhere in the middle of nowhere.No idea how you got in there. No idea how you got out again. You have a call.Just one.Who are you calling? You don’t call the smartest person. Not the most...
MEN, STOP LEADING IF YOU CAN’T HOLD YOUR OWN.

MEN, STOP LEADING IF YOU CAN’T HOLD YOUR OWN.

C-level does not automatically mean inner clarity. It’s high time to get honest. Attitude begins where it becomes uncomfortable.And this is where leadership and function separate. In my work with C-level men, I experience the same void behind the shiny facade...