Impulse blog by Frank Rechsteiner
No compromises: Why you need to be radically honest with yourself in your professional life
“Every compromise is a silent no to yourself.” A sentence that hits the mark. And jolts. Because it puts its finger on one of the deepest wounds in our working world: we too often live in a spiral of conformity. We sell our clarity for supposed security. And lose the...
You are not on this earth to stop at Base 1.
You can feel it.There's more.More courage. More life. More you. But what are you doing? You stand still. Because it's safe. Because that's what you do. Because... yes, why actually? In the new episode of “Can you feel yourself?” we break down exactly that:Why we tell...
“I threw a hand grenade into my life.”
Not out of courage.But because I had no other choice. Penthouse. Excellent career. Luxury restaurant.And yet: Empty. Dead. On autopilot.I was a functioning man - but no longer a living person. Men don't break down. They continue to function quietly. We swallow the...
Do you trust yourself?
Self-confidence is not a state. It is a decision. Every. Damn. Day. “Wow, you have so much confidence.” Ever heard of it? Maybe been told? The truth is: what you see is often just a facade. I gave a speech at my mother's funeral. People said afterwards: “Frank, you're...
Live or survive?
I was in survival mode for years.Successful. Popular. Dead tired. Do you know that?You work. You perform. Everyone says: “Wow, he's really got it.”But inside you're empty. Always 110% for the job.Always available. Always “strong”.Always one more project.And in the...
Are you living your truth – or are you living the lives of others?
In the new episode of “Can you feel yourself? The Men's Podcast”, I talk about a question that has changed my whole life: Am I living my truth?I used to think: top job, good salary, apartment in Munich - everything fits.The truth? It was a gilded cage. I was...
“I’m so angry!” – And why that can be a gift
“I'm so angry!” - And why that can be a gift We all know them. Those moments when we are seething, when words are like fire on the tip of our tongue, when we want to scream out loud: “I'm so angry!” Anger is raw. Wild. And often feared. We have learned to suppress it,...
Why your environment has a massive impact on your success
Influence of the environment on your life Your environment plays a decisive role in how you develop and what decisions you make. Have you ever noticed how much your circle of friends influences you? If you have people around you who constantly see the glass as half...
As managers, we have failed completely if we accept that 8 out of 10 employees work to rule!
Let's get straight to the facts: Around eight out of ten of all employees only do the bare minimum in their job. Trust in employers is also continuing to fall. This is the result of a representative survey. Three quarters of employees in Germany now only do the bare...
Are you 100% committed to what you do – or do you often only live half-heartedly?
Have you ever asked yourself whether you are really 100% committed? Observe yourself and the people around you. How often do you really give your all? Be honest. Take a bike race, for example: I am a dedicated amateur road cyclist and had set myself the goal of riding...
Why we as managers should make very few compromises
Compromise - the central theme that pervades our daily lives at all levels. From an early age, we learn that we have to constantly make compromises in relationships and at work in order to be happy and satisfied. But is this the right way? I am firmly convinced that...
“I’m afraid of change!” – with this strategy, I was able to overcome it and become much more successful
The fear of change Many of us are familiar with the feeling of fear of change. This fear can paralyze us and prevent us from breaking new ground. I would like to share an example from my own sporting life that illustrates this process. 20 years ago, when I was still...
How enthusiastic are you about your life? A guide to more authenticity and joie de vivre
Sometimes it's worth pausing and asking yourself: how enthusiastic am I about myself and my life? This question is not just a quick thought-provoking exercise, but a valuable starting point for profound change. Why enthusiasm is crucial Do challenges mean that...
Why your distraction from the essentials is costing you success
In our hectic world, distraction is omnipresent. Whether it's constant notifications, endless social media feeds or unconsciously reaching for our smartphones, we all know the feeling of losing ourselves and letting our precious time slip away. But why do we distract...
Managers who apply this self-management method increase team performance by a factor of X
Stressed, rushed, annoyed, overworked, over-nighted and under constant pressure - this is how most managers describe their emotional state in recent workshops. Do you also find yourself in this situation all the time, I ask? I hear a chorus of answers - yes,...
How patient are you with yourself and in your professional environment?
In our hectic and fast-paced world, patience has often become a rare virtue. Many of us strive for instant results, forgetting that true change and growth take time. Staying patient is not only crucial for our own development, but also essential for honest and deep...
Why your relationship with yourself determines your relationships with other people!
Relationships in our professional and private lives are crucial to our personal well-being. Especially if you are faced with challenges in your professional dealings with employees, and there will always be challenges, you should start asking yourself what these...
Personal development: Can you trust yourself?
Trust and intuition: the key to your inner compass Trust is a powerful transformer. When you learn to trust yourself and listen to your intuition, new possibilities and paths open up to you that you didn't see before. Your intuition is your superpower, it is your...
Personal development in midlife: midlife crisis or midlife opportunity? It’s all a matter of perspective, isn’t it?
How do you personally deal with crises - do you have your own strategy for overcoming these intense times? We've all had personal crises or difficult challenges, it's part of life. Do you see these phases “purely” as difficult, stressful periods of life or can you...
Why a conscious decision can change your entire career
The last few years have profoundly changed the world of work. More speed, more dynamism, less stability. One example that impressively demonstrates this change: five years ago, nobody would have believed that a 63-year-old would still be successfully placed with a new...
How to significantly increase your self-efficacy – don’t accept mediocrity!
In this article, I look forward to taking you on a journey to self-realization and excellence and thus to increasing your self-efficacy. We all have the desire to make the most of our time in life and thus increase our level of self-efficacy. The following points can...
New rules apply to you for promotion to top management – do you know them?
We all have dreams that we tell very few people about. It is much more important to realize them than to talk about them with many people. In a professional context, quite a few people dream of moving up into management and some even into top management. However, many...
Frank Rechsteiner reveals: My recruiting has changed dramatically since I learned this about IT talent
We all want the classic 5-point plan that tells us exactly what we need to do to solve our problem quickly. Whether we're talking about personal development, recruiting or headhunting, we're all looking for a simple solution to our challenges. But let me tell you -...
Why your life on “autopilot” brings you little success
We all know the scenario, you arrive at the office after a 45-minute drive and have practically no idea which way you drove. Thank goodness your guardian angel doesn't forget you. You've already mentally attended a meeting, spoken to your colleagues and answered a few...
Why your professional success can only be achieved through your uniqueness
Recognize your uniqueness You are one of a kind. There is no one in this world who is exactly like you. It doesn't matter how many people might tell you that you should be like someone else, be it a role model like Jürgen Klopp or Hansi Flick. You are and remain...
The role of the ego in your life: Friend or foe?
Introduction and importance of the ego The ego plays a central role in our daily lives. It influences our actions, our self-image and how we are perceived by others. The ego is not bad per se; it is an essential part of our personality and our drive. But as with...
Compromises: A concept on the test bench
Introduction to the topic of compromises Compromise - the central theme that runs through our daily lives. From an early age, we learn that we have to constantly compromise in relationships and at work in order to be happy and satisfied. But is this really the right...
Forever underpaid: How to join the “league of top earners” in your industry
More money is always possible, I keep hearing from candidates in interviews. Sure, we can increase your annual salary by 5% - but is that really the decisive factor? I'm sure you've already asked yourself what you need to change so that you can move up into the...
Breaking the circle of excuses: Your path to a self-determined life
Everyone knows it: a small problem arises and an excuse immediately pops into your head. Excuses are a dime a dozen and we all use them - often unconsciously. But it is precisely these excuses that prevent you from leading a self-determined life. The first step out of...
Discipline and honesty
Breaking the circle of excuses: Your path to a self-determined life
Your path to a self-determined life: Mastering challenges and finding inner strength
Introduction and personal background I would like to share my story with you. Perhaps you will recognize yourself in some parts. My path was anything but straightforward. From management consultant to managing director to headhunter - this path was characterized by...